Shibari for Beginners: An Introduction to Rope Bondage

Shibari, also known as Japanese rope bondage or Kinbaku, is a captivating art form that originated from Japan. Shibari involves the intricate and artistic tying of ropes around the body, creating bondage scenes that are aesthetically pleasing. It has gained widespread popularity, transcending its Japanese origins and captivating people worldwide with its beauty and depth.

History and Philosophy of Shibari

Shibari has a rich history, having evolved since its inception in the Sengoku period in Japan. Shibari originates from Hojojutsu, a martial art with the goal of quickly taking down enemies and restraining them with rope. While Shibari has risen in popularity as an art form, Hojojutsu is still practised as a martial art and in BDSM circles that covet the speed of restraint that it offers.

Shibari vs Kinbaku vs Hojojutsu

Modern day rope based bondage is heavily influenced by the techniques and ties found in Hojojutsu. With three different terms that have different meanings, the correct use of terminology becomes confusing. The terms Shibari and Kinbaku have been adopted by members of the BDSM community and erotic artists. These words cannot be translated to English while retaining their full meaning, nor do they come close to encompassing the full meaning or cultural values associated with the art form that has developed over centuries. While people may interchangeably use the terms Shibari and Kinbaku, Hojojutsu should be used to refer to ties and techniques in a martial context.

Safety First

Before you begin exploring Shibari, it is important to prioritise the safety of the person being restrained. Bondage in all of its forms evokes physical and emotional vulnerability, so it is essential that you establish trust with your partner through clear communication. Educate yourself on proper techniques, nerve anatomy and the risks involved before you attempt to restrain someone. Always have a pair of safety scissors nearby, in case you need to quickly release your partner from the ropes.

Choosing the Right Rope

Selecting an appropriate type of rope is essential for both comfort and safety. Natural ropes, made from fibres like jute and hemp, are popular due to their strength, flexibility and security. Synthetic ropes, such as nylon and MFP (Multi-Filament Polypropylene), are commonly used as they are more durable and easier to maintain. Ensure that your rope is in good condition and has a suitable thickness, usually around 6mm - 8mm, before tying up your partner. At Cheeky BDSM we provide a wide range of high quality bondage rope available for purchase. 

Learning the Basics

While it may be tempting to attempt the beautiful and complex ties right away, it is essential to properly learn the basics. Familiarise yourself with foundational knots like the single column tie, double column tie, and the lark's head knot, as these knots form the building blocks for more complex Shibari ties. Practise them diligently and seek guidance from experienced practitioners through workshops, classes, or online resources. Like other art forms, patience and practice are key in order to hone your Shibari skills.

Exploring Techniques

Once you have a solid understanding of the foundational knots, you can begin exploring different techniques and patterns. Always make sure to follow instructions laid out in guides to prevent injury and to choose rope ties and techniques that are appropriate for your level of experience. The Takate Kote, also known as a chest harness, is a popular and visually striking tie that can be attempted when you are confident that you've mastered the basics.

Continued Education

Shibari is a lifelong journey that involves refining your technique, learning new ones and taking inspiration to form your own unique style. Attend workshops, engage with the community, and explore the work of renowned Shibari artists to draw inspiration and learn new techniques.

Conclusion

On the surface, Shibari is a way to incorporate artistry into your bondage play. Looking a little deeper, it is a form of expression that ties intricate rope work with trust and vulnerability. As a beginner, you need to prioritise safety by properly learning about Shibari techniques and nerve anatomy. Embrace your creativity and express yourself through your personal style of Shibari that you cultivate through diligent practice.